The tumultuous relationship that is Blac Chyna and Rob Kardashian is drama-filled, sildenafil never ending and?needless to say?kind of entertaining. No? From violent outbursts to delivery room mannequin challenges, this couple is definitely leaving a lasting impression on the world and in the largest way possible!
In most recent news, Chyna and Rob were involved in a domestic dispute which ended in Kris Jenner’s boyfriend, Corey Gamble walking in on the scuffle and breaking it up. Intoxicated and fuming with rage, Chyna was caught punching Rob in his arms and back! Soon after, she quickly packed up her and the children’s things and moved out. But, wait… There’s more! The couple is reportedly back together, AGAIN! The short-lived split came to an even faster close after a few rounds of Rob’s Snapchat sniveling, apologies and declared admittance of guilt.
“This weekend I was in an emotional bad place and did some things that embarrassed myself and my family. I apologize and I’m seeking help to deal with my flaws/issues,” he wrote on Instagram. “Please pray for me and I’m sorry @blacchyna. You are a great mother to our child and I love you.”
Either way you slice it, this couple’s headlines never disappoint, but they do lead me to pose my next question… Can you turn a “hoe” into a housewife?
NOW… Do I really want the #TEAMBLACCHYNA squad coming for me on all of my socials? Hell, no! So, before I go any further, let me explain what I truly mean.
I am NOT calling Blac Chyna a hoe. I’m generally using the term for the sake of this discussion. She is an educated business woman and reducing her to just that term is so lazy.
Blac Chyna is worth over $3 million and this amount does not include her partnership with Rob Kardashian. She is a tough, self-sufficient and resilient woman, who has a short fuse and no time for nonsense. Firmly standing on her own two, Chyna doesn’t need, desire nor require assistance from any man and is successfully handling her business all on her own.
Can we honestly expect Blac Chyna to just drop her suggestive lifestyle and the very thing that is keeping her paid? Appearances, endorsements and provocative modelling is why the majority of her fan base subscribes to her. It’s exactly why promoters and clothing companies book her in the first place! Her bodacious curves and diamond studded dimples are to die for and eminently sought after. Thousands of young women everywhere are willing to pay top surgeons for her body. Some are even going as far as paying shady, unlicensed individuals and meeting them in rundown motel rooms to get the job done.
It’s an expression that we hear far too often as women, “Ladies need to stop depending on men to take care of them!” And, Blac Chyna is doing just that! She may not have graduated from Harvard or Yale, but the coinage that she rakes in on a yearly basis may lead you to believe that she may have.
My personal opinion is this:
If your boyfriend, fiancée or husband is looking for you to slow things down after moving in together or having a child or getting married, please take that tip as a warning sign and proceed with caution. A man shouldn’t be investing in you to change you. He invests because he sees you as an added bonus to the empire he hopes to have one day.
Rob Kardashian knew what that condo looked like before he signed the lease. Whether we are discussing her temper or her temperament, the fact of the matter is, when a person shows you who they are, you have to believe them. She shouldn’t have to change who she has always been for a man.
Let me know your take on the topic!
Are we being fair? Should Blac Chyna really be looking to make a life-altering switch to her lifestyle? Or, should Rob Kardashian get over himself and commit to the woman that he signed up for?
Sound off in the comments… I wanna hear from you!
Written by: MAVEN CUTTINO
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